Hello Everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!! It’s been around 20 days since I haven’t written any new article…… I am feeling very happy to write my new article. I wanted to write this article long time back but because of some reason or the other this article went on delaying...I love to share my feelings and thoughts to all my readers .In my last post “DAYS OF INNOCENCE………”, I spoke to you about my childhood days and now its time for me to write about a beautiful relationship called Friendship that values a lot in my life.

I strongly believe that Friendship is one of the most beautiful and lovely relationship existing in today’s world. It’s a very precious bonding developed between at least two people. But to be frank , if 7 years back I was ever asked a question like “Is friendship a beautiful relationship existing between two people?” My reply would be no at that very moment. Nearly 7 years back, I was a person who always thought that friendship has lost its true value….there can be no one called true friend in our life.

You all may be wondering what is this girl talking about, but that’s a fact “I always had negative view towards friendship”... After my schooling when I started studying my 11th standard I realized that I m wrong with my perspective about friendship and was happy to be wrong with my thinking. I met a very special friend in my 11th who made me feel and believe that friendship is very essential in our life. She told me the actual definition of friendship. From then on my view towards friendship changed entirely. Thanks a lot to that special friend of my life who made me to realize my mistake.

Now if I was asked the above question my answer is yes because friendship is really a valuable relation existing in the world. According to me, Friendship is all about sharing each other’s opinions, thoughts, dreams, fears, aspirations and hopes. You don’t mind to engage your all time in conversations with your friends. In Friendship we always feel happy to cherish old memories of togetherness and create new memories everyday. We love to spend our time with friends and always want to share our happy moments with them. Friendship requires a lot of mutual understanding, love, care and respect for each other.

The word which inspires me most about friendship is that “Friendship should always be like milk and water, even when we try to mix them together they remain inseparable…..that’s a stronger bond between them”. Most of us are very familiar with the famous phrase from a Doha by Kabirdas where he tells “jal bin machli”; here he tries to explain that a fish can’t survive if ever separated from water. It’s so friendly with water that it can’t live without water. So he expects everyone to have a true friendship like a fish and water. I have always been very inspired by both the above examples.

I feel bad when I see people around me who once were inseparable and together always, have spilt very badly and moved on to different ways and leading their life separately, and I cant stop myself from wondering what could’ve happened so wrong between them that they can’t even stand each other’s face? A friendship always begins with ‘no sorry no thank you’ and then later reaches the ‘best friends forever’ stage. Can it end with such a bitter note? Building up relationships is very necessary for fulfilling and leading our life happily. But every relation will have some problem. Even close friendships at times will have problems every now and then.

The reasons for a split in a friendship might be many in number. But very often people always regret their past broken friendships when they look back at the pages of their life. People tend to lose their relationships because of petty differences and misunderstandings. People lose their close relations because of their silly baseless doubts and suspicions .As Lord Buddha says “There can be nothing more dreadful than the habit of doubt. Doubt separates people. It is a poison that disintegrates friendships and breaks up pleasant relations. It is a thorn that irritates and hurts; it is a sword that kills “. It’s very bad to lose our dear ones due to pointless doubts and misunderstandings. It mainly happens due to lack of trust and miscommunications.

The darker side in a close relationship is mainly caused due to misunderstanding, which is a common problem in close relationships. At times people misinterpret their close ones this happens primely due to lack of communication between friends generally when busy in each other’s life and have no time for each other may eventually lead to misunderstanding. We tend to be more selfish and think only about our selves. Misunderstanding will lead to misinterpretation of positive as negative. This problem can be solved by spending time with our friends and close ones trying to communicate with them. Firstly we should understand each other very well and ready to do any help to the other. Rather than regretting later in our life for losing them in our life its better that we take a few steps towards them and try solving our differences.

Trust and mutual respect is very important in any relationship, when we start to trust our close ones the problem of misunderstanding doesn’t come into picture. It can be avoided to a greater extent. Spending time with your close ones will make the bonds of your relation to grow stronger .as the sun can make an iceberg to melt similarly closeness in a friendship can make the misunderstandings and mistrust to gradually evaporate.

At the end I would like to tell everyone that I took few years to realize how important friendship in our life and value associated with it, I used to regret about it but not anymore because I realized that our close ones remain in our heart and they are never lost ever since I have started to believe that “even the lost find their way home when you leave the light on”. So if you have any friend of yours with whom you’ve fought for some silly reason or have lost touch due to your busy schedules, then its time to give them a call or meet up. Friends are always friends…Every friendship goes through its good and bad phases at some point of time, but we should always remember that we can make a difference by not giving a chance for such misunderstandings and mistrust. It depends only upon us to bridge the gap with our close ones.

Hi all!!!!! Firstly I want to wholeheartedly thank all my blog readers and a special thanks to all my followers. Its only through your precious and valuable comments that have helped me a lot to improve my writing and encouraged me to write more new articles…..Thank you everyone:):):).

Secondly I want to apologize for writing my new post so late….. Sorry friends for making you all wait. I am very sure that everyone will agree that, the most beautiful and amazing book ever is our life itself. It contains a lot of colorful pages of our life. Every incident that happened in our life is captured and gets entered in the pages of this book. Among them there are many pages which will make us laugh and at the same time some will make us cry. It really helps us to remember and cherish unforgettable memories of our life. Truly Memories is a best way of holding onto the things that we love the most, the things we have done, the things which we always want to remember.

Among all the pages of our life’s book, the wonderful and unforgettable of all our memories is the days filled with innocence-our childhood days. It is the fun filled and happy phase of our life. Childhood is one of the most beautiful of all life's seasons. The memories of our childhood are the only memories that most of us to revisit and live it all over again.

The best life ever to experience is the life as a child. Honestly when we were a child everything looked so dreamily perfect. Everything was intact. We got everything that we asked and craved for. Parents were ready to do anything that we asked them to do. The world looked so beautiful to a child’s eye because the child is not aware of the reality, how is the world in real????? Everything that was told was easily believed. A child would think all the relations around is so real and perfect.

The Childhood days were filled with happiness and joy. These days of Innocence made us feel that everything around us is new, a complete mystery to us.......so as a kid we loved to learn many new things and everything around us appeared splendidly beautiful!!!.... what we remember from our childhood days is what we wish to remember forever.

I miss those days so much……….. The only things I had to worry as a child was to find a new place every time, to hide after doing some mischief so that I won’t be caught by anyone. I used to get very scared of darkness. I rarely used to go out of home in the darkness. The best pass time as a child was to trouble my sister (who is a year and half younger to me). Many a times my teachers at school would complain about me to my parents that your daughter is being naughty day by day.

In spite of all these complaints by my teachers I was the favorite student of the headmistress of our school. She loved me a lot. She used to never complain about me to anyone. The day she got retired was one of my saddest days of my childhood. I still remember that day, I was in the first standard or so she told me to come and sit on her lap and she gave me a bag full of chocolates. She was the best headmistress ever I met in my school. Every student used to get scared of her because she was very strict and highly disciplined. Even to this day if we meet we talk about it. I really miss those happy days of my life.

When we were children we were completely naive to believe the world around us and we found it so magnificent. When we are a child our brain was more active and we were interested to many things. That’s the reason we find children always amazed with things around them, and trying out many different new things. There’s a kid in my neighborhood her name is Panchami. She is just 2 year old, very active and smart ready to try out new things which interests her. She is very sweet and has a sharp memory, she remembers everything in detail. You name a song to her and she is ever ready to recite that song to you with the very good melody.

Once when she had been to my home I had shown her a airplane flying in the far-off sky, to this day whenever I meet her the first thing she enacts looking at me is the way the airplane flies. She is very cute and very innocent. At times I do slightly envy her, when I see her running in their garden carefree, tension less behind the tiny butterflies. The smile of a child makes you forget all your sadness and worries in an instant. I have surely learnt a lot of things from her.

The innocence that we had when we were a child starts to fade as we start facing the hardships of life and become more familiar to the real world around us. We start realizing the harsh realities of the life. When we reach a stage of saturation where in we start feeling that we are lonely and sad but we want to ignore the bad memories and our sadness, the best way to come out of all this is cherish the memories of our childhood days.

We should start to cherish those lighter moments of our life and ignore the bad ones.The ones who will start experiencing it will have a chance to see the beautiful world filled with happiness and joy.

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