Hello friends!!!!!! Firstly, let me wish everyone a very happy and a safe diwali. Hope this festival of light, lights up everyone’s life with happiness and joy. This time I have chosen a very interesting topic for my blog…..Any guesses?????? Ok let me just give you all a hint what is it all about. It’s avery important and an essential quality in our life. Haven’t guessed it yet!!!! Its ok friends let me tell you all what is it exactly…..The very important essence in one’s life is TRUST:).Isn’t it true friends????? I’m very sure that everyone will agree with me that its 100% true.
Along with many other aspects of our life, building a strong foundation of trust is very important. First and the foremost thing is that we need to trust ourselves .Without trusting ourselves the question that will arise is how can we trust anybody or how can anyone trust us?????When we try to build the trust factor within us, we truly represent ourselves well in front of others. And also we develop self confidence which is also very important aspect in our life.
A person who always fears and feels insecure will obviously find it difficult to trust himself as well as others. It’s understandable if he is afraid of strangers, wicked, selfish and cruel people around him. But if he is not able to trust his own family and friends, he will be left alone. Distrust will always lead to endless worries, unhappiness and tensions in life. Individuals who don't trust themselves and others create a lot of unhappiness around them. It will make their life miserable and worrisome.
In simple terms, we can tell trust is something which helps us to maintain comfort level without feeling unease when we are surrounded by people. It also means that we let others know about our inner feelings, emotions and we having confidence in them and respect for them. We tend to share all our inner thoughts with others with the belief that they will keep that secret to themselves and not spread them around. We also tend to place confidence in others so that they will be support us, we don’t even mind to let them know about our weaknesses. It’s basically the trust on them that lets us do all this. Trust is the factor, which lets us have a belief that we can find them around us when we will need them.
How will we feel if no one trusts us??????? If people stand at a distance when we talk to them, we surely will feel bad. If I am in that situation I seriously get irritated. Trust is very very important in my life. I was a person who would trust anyone at any time but certain things made me feel that it’s wrong. My close friends told me that its foolishness, they said to me that never give your blind trust to anyone .Think many number of times before trusting anyone blindly.
The important thing that I learnt from my past mistakes and my true friends that If you're naive enough to trust anyone you meet in the street, you're bound to get yourself into trouble. But that doesn’t mean that we should not believe and trust anyone, in fact we should be very careful enough while trusting people around us. The best thing to do is let our common sense guide us through our life. We should learn to when to keep people at a distance and when it's safe to believe and trust them. The prime thing is we should learn to meet life with trust.
Lack of trust always will lead to suspicion, suspicion will in turn generate anger, Anger will cause enmity to arouse and enmity will finally result in separation. Nowadays, this is the sole reason for the failure in most of the relationships.
When we have trust on our self and others, we can act as we want and as we wish. We can continue living our life peacefully because we will be surrounded by those who know you very well and trust you. We feel safer when we are surrounded by trustworthy people and focus our time and energy on living our life to the fullest. Enjoy every moment of our life with them. We can share our innermost desires and pains with the people whom we trust. To a greater extent, it helps us achieving our dreams. It also ease the pain that seemed so unbearable when were all alone.
Trust leads to a much richer and healthier life. The best part of trust is it bears a very sweet fruit i.e. the peace of mind.
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